Why I Like Yoga . . . I’ve Changed My Mind

June 3, 2012
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A year ago I thought yoga was a waste of time.  You could say that I was anti-yoga and that I didn’t “get it”.  I’d been to yoga classes a few times and I tried to like it.  But, every time I went, I found myself attempting poses I had no business doing, feeling intimidated by the instructors, and watching the clock, anxiously awaiting the end of the class.  I also felt like I was competing with everyone else watching what the person next to me could do.  Now that I look back, I’m sure I had a closed mind, that I didn’t have the right instructor or attend the right type of class.Fast forward to January of 2012.  My good friend introduced me to a little local yoga studio that specializes in just that.  It wasn’t the big health club that had spinning, body pump, and yoga – all taught by the same instructor.  My friend told me to keep an open mind.  And, once class started, to just pay attention to myself – no one else.  Once class started, I was on my own.At that first class, the instructor was wonderful.  She was bubbly, energetic, and very much hands-on and helpful.  She was warm and welcoming.  I didn’t feel intimidated by her AT ALL.  She walked around and helped everyone, and gave great cues and direction.  She explained things that no other instructor had ever explained before.  I tuned out everyone else in the room and just focused on me.  I didn’t push myself or try poses that hurt.  I had opened my mind to yoga.

I can’t claim to be any great yogi, but I continue to try to improve my skills and get to a yoga class once a week.  I don’t think I’d ever want to learn how to teach yoga – I want this for me.  What do I like about yoga?

* I have learned how to be still and clear my mind.  I can just sit or lay in a yoga class and tune out the world and focus on me.  I can show up to a yoga class stressed, and leave feeling refreshed and relaxed.  I no longer look at the clock.  I often find myself wishing class wouldn’t end.  (I still don’t “om”, but I’m not totally opposed to it anymore.)

* Yoga is the perfect supplement to lifting.  I lift 2 times a week and like to be strong.  But, I’ve found that yoga compliments it so well.  It has helped me learn how to breathe and relax, which has helped with certain lifts, especially squatting and Turkish get-ups.  These skills will also benefit my cycling – I tend to be very tense, stiff and have a death-grip on the bars.

* Yoga has helped me learn how to take my time and do things well.  I can’t rush through a yoga pose.  I can’t rush through lifts, if I want to do them well.

* Yoga has improved my flexibility.  I have some hip and lower back issues, and hopefully, those issues will continue to improve.  I try to incorporate a lot of yoga-type of stretching in workouts for both me and my clients.

* Yoga helps me recover.  I no longer consider a yoga class a “day off”. . . I consider it recovery.

As a former anti-yoga person, I’m now officially on the bandwagon.  (I even ordered my own yoga mat this weekend!)   Although, I still don’t think yoga is the be-all, end-all answer for fitness.  I do think it is a GREAT supplement for anyone’s workout routine.  I’d never recommend that anyone just lift, or only run, or only play tennis – for overall fitness – I’d also never have yoga be my only means for fitness.  Being fit to me means being able to do a little bit of everything – including yoga.

Thanks, JB!  Namaste, MF!


BAM = No Body Bashing Zone!

January 1, 2012
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Lately, I’ve been hearing some negative body talk and grumbling at the gym.  I try to always encourage and enforce a “No Body Bashing Zone” once my clients arrive at the gym, but occasionally a little negativity breeds more negativity and it’s my job to end it quickly.  I guess that is one of the problems of getting a bunch of women together - very few women are ever 100% truly satisfied with her body and women love to talk.

So, what is my response when the negative talk starts up?  I usually try to move the conversation on to something positive and focus everyone on their own workouts.  But, more importantly, my standard response to everyone at the gym is, “You can’t complain (to me) about your body (fat), until you track your food (consistently) and learn what you are eating.”

One of the biggest frustrations of being a trainer is that I’m only with my clients a few hours a week.  I can help them get strong, get fit and learn how to exercise.  However, I’m not with them at the grocery store when they are tempted by the snack or chip section.  I’m not sitting next to them every evening on the couch when the bottle of wine opens.  I’m not in the front passenger seat when they hit the McDonald’s drive-through window.  I don’t go to the coffee shop and suggest a cup of hot tea instead of the sugary, super-sized mocha.

Do you want to change your body?  Do you have too much body fat?  Not happy with how things are going for you?  Here are some tips. . .

* Get a positive attitude.  Ditch the negativity and embrace and love what you’ve got.  Negativity helps no one.  Negativity only breeds more negativity.

* Eat and act like you are already at the weight you want to be.

* Keep a food journal.  Like I’ve said a million times. . . until you know what you are truly eating every day, you can’t complain about your body weight.  An accurate food journal can be an eye-opening experience.

* Turn your food journal over to someone to review.  Be accountable.  My husband always tells me. . . what gets measured, gets done.  This is the same with our bodies.  If you have to report in to someone, you’ll clean up your diet – guaranteed.

* Be positive.  Be positive.  Be positive.  You can change.  You can do the work.  You can lose body fat.

Ditch the negativity and make a positive change this year.  You’ll be glad you did!  Good luck and have a happy & healthy 2012!

 

 


Should I Workout Today?

November 11, 2011
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I only work with women. . . and I like it that way!  Women are generally pretty tough.  Women, for the most part, tend to work through aches and pains.  Most of the time my clients show up to workout whether or not they are feeling 100%.  So, when should you show up or not go to the gym to workout?

Flu?  Fever?  Hacking Cough?  When our kids are sick, we keep them home from school.  Adults should follow those same rules.   Stay home when you have a fever, any sort of stomach bug, or have a serious cough or other ailment that is contagious.  I love my clients dearly, but I don’t want to get sick!  Verdict:  Stay home! 

A visit from “Aunt Flo”?  Yeah, I’ve been there and know all about female issues.  However, most of the time, you will feel better after you’ve worked out.  Moving will help relieve cramps and bloating.  Verdict:  Go to the gym!

Hangover?  Late night?  Yes, I’ve had a couple of cancellations due to hangovers and late nights!  I live in Wisconsin, after all.  Beer is one of the major food groups here.  Exercise might make you feel better. . . if it doesn’t, go home afterwards, take a couple of Tylenol, then take a nap.  Besides, not only did you drink heavily the night before, but you probably ate too much as well.  Verdict:  Go to the gym! 

Sore back?  Stiff knee?  Achy shoulder?  Most of my clients are women between the ages of 40-60.  We ALL have issues.  We all have aches and pains.  Most of the time, it’s hard to get a good read from my clients when they have pain.  Most of the time, they work through pain and don’t always tell me about it!  If a client has something that completely sidelines her, I recommend that she stays home until she is well.  If there is some sort of chronic ache, I usually recommend that she comes in and at least work on mobility and basic movements.  Sometimes, we avoid the affected area altogether.  Personally, if I’m particularly sore or my back is bothering me, I’ll just work on basic movement and flexibility.  Sometimes my warm-up and mobility work takes longer than my actual workout!  Verdict:  Injured?  Go to the doctor!  Sore, stiff, and achy?  Go to the gym and move . . . you’ll probably feel better. . . make sure you tell your trainer what issues you are having every workout.

Eh?  I’m just not feeling it today.  I hear these words daily, “I’m tired.”  “I’m not feeling it today.”  “I really wanted to cancel today.”  On a day when I’ve got a full schedule, I’m bound to have someone who isn’t motivated to move, but they show up!  When they leave, I usually hear, “I’m glad I came today.”  Enough said.  Verdict:  Go to the gym!  (You’ll be glad you did.)

Most of the time, I want my clients to show up.  Unless they are throwing up, have a fever or are injured, there is something they can do.  Sometimes a good workout can be more about flexibility and mobility than it is about lifting heavy things off the ground.


Just Do It. . . Is It (exercise) Really That Simple?

August 23, 2011

At 7:05 this morning, I’d just finished up with a group training session.  My clients had left, and I was getting ready to clean up, record their workouts and get ready to close the gym for the day.  Once I finished my tasks, I thought about how hungry I was and that I didn’t really want to workout.  I wanted to go home and eat breakfast, so I stalled a few more minutes and checked my email on my phone.

Then (thankfully), I thought to myself, “Enough!  Get moving already and don’t be lazy!”  What was it that made me “Just Do It”?  I’m not one for endorsing a company, however NIKE got it right.  When it comes to exercise, it can be as simple as just doing it.  So, I set up my workout, got my timer set, and had a goal to work hard for at least 20:00.  My original plan was to do this:

5:00 Slide board, 5:00 Med ball, 5:00 Slide board, 5:00 Heavy rope (:30 on; :30 off)

At the 20:00 mark, I felt good and kept going another 10 minutes for another 5:00 on the slide board and another 5:00 minutes of med ball throws.

Med Balls

So, what were my self-motivation strategies or thoughts going through my head to get my workout started?   Here are some of the thoughts that run through my brain before and during a workout. . .

* I want to look good.  Yes, it’s superficial, but I do want my body to look good.  If I don’t lift and workout, I’ll turn to mush instead of being solid and lean.  I like how I look in the mirror.  I can wear shorts.  I don’t mind wearing a bathing suit.  I no longer wear “big girl” jeans.

* I like how lifting heavy things makes me feel.  I like being strong.  I like that I can take care of myself.  I like the confidence it gives me being able to lift heavy things over my head.

* As crazy as this sounds, I want to impress my husband.  I want him to think I’m tough and can handle his workouts.  I want to (sort of) be able to keep up with him, especially as we age.

* I need to stay fit for my business.  How can I motivate and remain believable if I get fat and out of shape again?  One of the things that helps me sell my business is the simple fact that I’d been fit, let myself go, got fat-ish, then worked and ate right to lose the body fat.  If I can do it, so can my clients.  How hard would it be for me to sell my services if I was still a size 16 and an XL?

In the end, it does come down to the 3 simple words, “Just Do It”.  You’ve got to suck it up and move.  Instead of feeling guilty and sluggish when you skip your workout, you will feel a sense of accomplishment and good about yourself because you did the work.

What are your strategies for motivating yourself to workout?  Please share your ideas!


We Conquered Concordia!

July 4, 2011

Happy 4th of July! A couple of my clients met me at Concordia University in Mequon, WI for a quick workout. Thanks, Susan and Janet!

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We had a beautiful morning on the bluff overlooking Lake Michigan!


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